Two more reasons boys are scummy...

Reason #1:
There is a boy who just moved to my city this week. Knowing he was going to move, he contacted me via online dating site.
We've sent back e-mails and have been talking for a couple of weeks now.
First of, he is the jerk in the previous post I mentioned who makes rude comments about my sports teams and politics.
Still, he called me and I owed him a call. I usually return calls, and was going to go out with him to see what he is like in person.
I called and got his voicemail. Where he ends the message saying, "And if this is Mary, I love you, baby."
I thought, "Hmmmm...I know he is divorced, but I didn't think he had any kids."
I double checked his profile. He doesn't.
I thought some more. Who else would he say he loved and then give the endearment, "baby"?
Sister, mother, cousin. None of it fits.
Methinks the boy left a girlfriend back home and is already playing the field here.

Reason #2:
I received and e-mail from a boy the other day, and I just responded today. He already e-mailed me back and told me a little bit about himself.
He told me that he just started doing the online thing, and has been divorced for 5 months now.
He obviously doesn't remember that he e-mailed me 6 months ago. Now, he was legally separated before the divorce, so I am not bothered that he contacted me before that went through. Really.
But the whole, "I'm new to this!" when he first contacted me the beginning of the new year bothers me.

Why I am scum:
I have a name in my cellphone I can't place. I know I have e-mailed him, but I can't find the e-mails to place who it is. Normally, if it is a guy I have no wish to talk to, I delete it. If it is a guy I don't hear from for 2 weeks, I delete it. Who is this mysterious "Mark" in my phone? Dare I delete it? Or should I wait and see if he calls me?
I can't believe I can't place this guy. I am usually really good about this!